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Christmas Surprise

on December 31, 2013

On Christmas Day, we were in the midst of Agnes’ shunt saga and coming home was not even on our radar. We went to church and had a nice family dinner, we visited Agnes in the hospital and wondered how her shunt surgery would go on the day after Christmas. We snapped a few photos:

Merry Christmas from Agnes in her cute booties.

Merry Christmas from Agnes in her cute booties.

After Divine Liturgy on Christmas morning.

After Divine Liturgy on Christmas morning.

Agnes did do well with her shunt surgery. So well, in fact, that she was transferred out of the PICU on Saturday, while the rest of us were in Perrysburg, OH for a holiday gathering of extended family. I got a picture with my grandma:

Four generations: my grandma, my dad, me, Stephen.

Four generations: my grandma, my dad, me, Stephen.

When we came back to Akron and visited Agnes on Sunday, several people asked us if we were still planning to take her home that day, as in Sunday. Um…no that’s not really possible. We thought maybe by Tuesday all the home care stuff would be organized; that’s what we were expecting.

On Monday morning, I went with Stephen to visit Agnes while Jeremy took care of some car business at the BMV. As soon as I arrived at the hospital, before I saw anyone or spoke to Agnes’ nurse, I got a call from home with the message that the home care agency would be out at our house to reopen Agnes’ case since she was scheduled to come home that day, as in Monday. Well, that was news to me. So I called Jeremy and told him to bring all of Agnes’ travel gear when he was done at the BMV.

It was a whirlwind, but we still managed to keep the tradition of discharge-day photos:

snapped a selfie

snapped a selfie

daddy wanted to do a selfie, too

daddy wanted to do a selfie, too

We brought Agnes home in her Christmas present minivan, and she did a great job. No crying, perfect O2 sats, no puking. She has been very stable since coming home. She has been able to sat 100% almost all the time on a mere 1 liter of oxygen, which is something she was never able to do. Not since the week or two immediately after coming home with a trach only.

I can’t even believe she came home after only two weeks in the hospital. I am still amazed by what seems to be a miraculous recovery. It is hard to believe that only two weeks ago, she was so sick we were talking about what to do if it was The End, and the social workers were whispering “hospice care” to each other. And now, she seems to be healthier than ever, at least from a respiratory standpoint. She still has a bit of mysterious distention in her belly, which can’t possibly be shunt-related anymore since the shunt is now in her heart. If it’s not brain fluid, then what is it?

On the one hand, I am thrilled to have Agnes home and I want to relax and settle in to a routine at home, and feel like a “normal” family, as much as we can. But on the other hand, I keep expecting Agnes to pull a fast one in two or three days, “I told you so!” and end up back in the hospital.

Only she knows the truth.

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2 responses to “Christmas Surprise

  1. JeneaSwainston says:

    Praises and prayers that this new trend with Agnes doing better will continue!

  2. Penny says:

    I have been checking this page wondering how it is going at home. I would like to think “no post” is a “good post” but I know that when litlle Miss Agnes gets sick you get awfully busy. If things are going well, I would love to see some home pictures of her. Thanks and love……..Penny

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